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updates on dog training.....

gilly & griffin are doing good. we haven't been doing much in the way of training. after 3 different trainers, 8 different collars, etc... we're at a good place. the last trainer who came out really gave us some perespctive on the dogs, and we needed that. maybe in the fall we'll get someone to teach gilly to use the treadmill. for now we're just enjoying life, and laying low in the record breaking summer heat.  we do go for walks at the park, and there's lost of mud and dirt to be had!

here's an article from time magazine. i thought it was an interesting study. here's the article in full:

Dogs are descended from wolves. Wolves live in hierarchical packs in which the aggressive alpha male rules over everyone else. Therefore, humans need to dominate their pet dogs to get them to behave.

 This logic has dominated the canine-rearing conversation for more than five years, thanks mostly to National Geographic's award-winning show, Dog Whisperer with Cesar Millan.

But many experts say Millan's philosophy is based on now-debunked animal studies and that some of his techniques — most famously the alpha roll, in which he pins a dog on its back and holds it by the throat — are downright cruel. Rival trainer Victoria Stilwell has launched a competitive assault on Dog Whisperer by starring on Animal Planet's It's Me or the Dog and by spreading her system of positive-reinforcement training virtually and with troops on the ground: this June she launched a podcast (available on positively.com and iTunes) and franchised her methods to a first batch of 20 dog trainers in the U.S., the U.K., Italy and Greece. She uses positivity as a counterpoint to dominance theory and reserves her aggression for the poorly behaving humans.

The debate has its roots in 1940s studies of captive wolves gathered from various places that, when forced to live together, naturally competed for status. Acclaimed animal behaviorist Rudolph Schenkel dubbed the male and female who won out the alpha pair. As it turns out, this research was based on a faulty premise: wolves in the wild, says L. David Mech, founder of the Minnesota-based International Wolf Center, actually live in nuclear families, not randomly assembled units, in which the mother and father are the pack leaders and their offspring's status is based on birth order. Mech, who used to ascribe to alpha-wolf theory but has reversed course in recent years, says the pack's hierarchy does not involve anyone fighting to the top of the group, because just like in a human family, the youngsters naturally follow their parents' lead.

Says Bonnie Beaver, former president of the American Veterinary Medical Association (AVMA): "We are on record as opposing some of the things Cesar Millan does because they're wrong." Likewise, the American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior (AVSAB) issued a position statement last year arguing against the aggressive-submissive dichotomy.

It is leadership by showing a good example, not dominance, that AVSAB says owners should strive for in relation to their dogs. The organization's statement, which does not explicitly name Millan but references his terminology and some of his controversial techniques, argues that dominant-submissive relationships that do occur in nature are a means to allocate resources — a problem that rarely exists between dogs and their owners. (Nor even, AVSAB notes, among feral dogs, which live in small, scavenging groups without alphas controlling access to food and mates.) House pets, on the contrary, bark too much, jump up on you, ignore your commands, growl and nip at you because they have been inadvertently rewarded for this behavior or because they have not been trained to act differently.

To be sure, Millan's approach to retraining is sometimes warm and fuzzy, and he has much common ground with positive-reinforcement trainers like Stilwell. Both trainers strive — as much as possible with a nonspeaking animal — to determine the psychological cause of a pup's misbehavior. Both encourage people to ignore dogs' annoying habits so as not to accidentally reward them with attention. Both agree that punishment is only effective during or within half a second after the offending behavior: yell at Butch for peeing in your kitchen after he's already walked away, and Butch will think he's in trouble for walking away. Both trainers obviously love animals.

But, AVSAB says, calling a dog's behavior aggressive, as Millan often does, should be reserved for the most violent animals, and some critics even dislike the quick smacks on the flank he gives to focus a dog's attention. "Discipline doesn't come in the form of screaming at your dog, hitting your dog or putting it into an alpha roll," says Stilwell. "When you do that, instinct tells the dog to shut down, which is mistaken for calming, but really you're making the dog more insecure."

Such insecurity can have unintended consequences. For one thing, rather than submit, your pets might lash out at you. "They may react with aggression, not because they are trying to be dominant but because the human threatening them makes them afraid," AVSAB says. For another, even if a dog looks subdued, you don't know what's going on inside. "Fear increases cortisol," says AVMA's Beaver, a professor at Texas A&M's College of Veterinary Medicine. "Long-term fear increases it significantly and can lead to long-term health problems associated with stress" — a point that Stilwell, in her melodious British accent, likes to point out to her clients on TV.

Take the example of Atlanta couple Louie Newman and Judy Griffin, who already had two Lhasa apsos when they adopted a rescue poodle named Manny. Not only did Manny pick fights with the other dogs, he also would attack Newman whenever he went near his wife or even tried to hand her the remote control. Newman and Griffin thought Manny wanted to control everyone, but Stilwell told them he was just trying to figure out his status in the household. "She said he was always tense. He didn't ever blink. I would've never thought to check if my dog blinked," says Newman, a recording executive in Nashville, who learned to relax when approaching Manny and to court him with treats. "He was really insecure. Who would have thought that? He acted like he owned the house."

Of course, letting Manny's whims rule the roost was one of the couple's big mistakes. The question is to what extent they, or any dog owner, should put him in his place. With Stilwell gearing up for her third American TV season and Millan in the middle of his sixth, the answer may be a lot simpler and less dramatic than producers would have us think. "All I have to be is one position higher than that dog," says Beaver. "I raise him to see me as a leader. Not an alpha, a leader."

old stuff...

i love old posters and photos from the WPA and old dust bowls photos.  here's a link to some beautiful (& rare) color photos from the depression era. it's totally worth your time to check these out!

blahsville.....

i'm feeling quite random today.  posting a pic of the beautiful sunrise this morning (taken from right outside starbucks!)  also, why are angelina jolie's arms looking so weird?

that's all i got... lame.

 ok, here's 2 more upsetting semi-celebrity pics.  dog the bounty hunter and devandra barnhart (a dirty hippie folk singer.)

stuff we watched this weekend, mostly in chronological order...

random weird internet stuff...

i've always wanted to get hair extensions, until i saw a recent pic of britney spears:

also, here's a link to the top 20 worst fast food ideas.  #19 and #16 were things i already thought of (although my bloody mary starbucks idea was more of an iced thing...)

a day in the life of gilly & griffin

fighting on the couch...

friends on the couch...

more fighting....

and then window patrol...

griffin has the toy while gilly watches from the couch (and i watch bad soaps)....

gilly is bored with it all...

and wishes i would stop taking her photo...

ok gilly, just one more...

griffin and his favorite toy win!!!

and now back to the couch....

resting up for the next round.

church stained glass

i love stained glass.  i took some photos at st. gabriel's (chardon) and it makes me want to take another stained glass class.  

of course i had to touch the fires of hell!

sick on the couch with dogs...

back to our normal programming....

gilly likes the look of carpet on carpet

their favorite spots...

 

a classic shot of gilly, dan & golden monkey

this is the kind of photo my grandma would chuckle at and ask me if i had no shame.  yeah, no shame!

the ugly cat...

what the dogs have taught me.....

 i took gilly to get her nails cut on my lunch break. i brought griffin too.  he loves to ride in the car. i left him in the car in the shade since it was a quick appointment. he had a bowl of water and was happy to hang out.

 gilly & i  walked in to the waiting room and there was this huge, ancient dog.  some kind of a great dane.  he was black with a lot of gray hair.  he struggled to get up and walk over to gilly.  she sat calmly (odd for her.)  he sniffed the top of her head for a moment and then went to lay back down by the man who held his leash slack in his hands.

the woman standing next to him smiled and said, "well old buddy, at least you got to play one last time..." and then she started crying.  i looked back at the dog and saw his bones jutting out.  he was dying, she explained, and they were there to put him out of his misery.

of course i started crying.  the man holding the old dogs leash wiped away some tears.  all i could think to say was, "he's very handsome.  i bet he was a beautiful dog in his day."

the nurse came in to call them back and the man gave up on the leash and picked up his dog and carried him back.  the woman followed behind.  before she went through the door she turned and said, "thanks for letting him meet your puppy.  take care..."

we went back and got gilly's nails cut.  she behaved perfectly and the vet techs commented on how pretty she was, and well behaved.  i was still crying and i asked them how they could stand to work there, seeing all the sad cases & old dogs being put down.

one of them answered me (i noticed she had been crying too).  she said, "we love these animals, and sometimes we cry, like today.  but we get to smell puppies and play with kittens too."

after that, i took gilly & griffin to the park for a long walk,  we found a path that led down to the water and they both walked in.  they were wet & muddy and had a good time.

we're home now.  everyone has had lunch and the dogs are napping.  gilly is on the couch snoring.  i wonder if she's thinking of that handsome old dog she met today....

all of this has me thinking about my life with dogs, and what they've taught me.  i don't have any big philosophical message.  each dog was so different.  it's funny to think of them all now... and really, what they have taught me is that i should enjoy the time we have together.  stop worrying about the bills, the house, how old griffin is getting... have fun whenever there's the chance for fun.  i think that's it.

here are the deep and meanful lessons each dog has taught me:

have fun!

work your cuteness...

be dignified at times....

be shiny and handsome....

take lots of naps........

and be able to laugh at yourself....